Female “Viagra”?

 Blooming blossom 

You know what? 

Listen up.

You want me to have sex with you? Don’t slap me on the butt or shake your wanker in my face and then tell me there is something wrong with me because I am not aroused. I am not taking a pill for that. You are going to have to work for it. 

Make me want you. 

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113 thoughts on “Female “Viagra”?

    • I have patients coming in asking for female Viagra all of the time because they have been led to have unrealistic expectations of what is normal female sexual desire/activity. I know what is going to happen if this gets approved officially by the FDA. The pharmaceutical company with direct market and lead women to believe they have something wrong with them and then there will be a mad dash to the physician offices. There are serious concerns about the side effect profile and risks on this thing which is why it has been turned away twice already.

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  2. It would be interesting to see what would happen after female viagra gets approved. It would be a small step towards equality for sure. Considering how many viagra type medication is available to men and none for women – the female viagra is long overdue.

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    • Except that there is no good definition of what female hyposexual dysfunction actually is in the first place. And this only helps maybe 10% of women who take once correction for placebo effect is applied. Then add in the side effect issues. This is not about equality.

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  3. Ya know! Fleetwood Mac had a song called “Say you love me” and part of the lyrics were “Woo me until the sun comes up. And say that you love me.” Once, not long before my divorce i was singing along with the song, with some of the girls… and i suddenly changed the words… “Woo me until the sun comes up.. And don’t shake that thing in my face!”
    πŸ˜€ Hugs!

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  4. I just saw that on CNN today and an interview with the couple. Rather sad! There seems to be a pill for everything. It is good to get a female physician’s thoughts on this. Love the flower photo – perfect! I still prefer the old-fashioned way…a little wine always helps too!

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    • I have no doubt that there are a few women who will benefit but the risk is changing the whole dynamic of sex. More wham, bam, thank you ma’am and less foreplay and communication. How often should women have sex to be “normal”?

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      • I think it might be that some (many?) women judge male sexual appetites based on the men they knew as teenagers/postadolescents, you know, the guys who are at that stage of life when all they need is to IMAGINE the nubile does grazing down by the stream to go into rut. I think once the young stags reach full maturity sexual appetite is a variable and individual thing. And…I’m not sure that many men like it when their doe has an active sexual appetite. I think it might be one of the most complicated and idiosyncratic realities of human life. I’d never generalize beyond that.

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  5. ::::smacks hand to forehead::: are you frigging kidding me here? I am so glad sometimes I do not watch or listen to the news. Why can we not take the time and money that went into this a cure some of the nasty diseases out there?
    I want to write so much about this, but I am tired after a long day and I am sure it will color my writing.
    sigh….

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  6. The age of pills instead of mutual understanding.

    So consensual sex is a complex process of perception, state of mind and decisions to physically join one another?

    Lazy consumer: “too many words, can you make it easy?”
    Physician: “well treat your partner right and make him or her feel loved and appreciated.”
    Lazy consumer: “that sounds like work.”
    Physician: “relationships and sex are work. Make the right effort and you can have fun.”
    Lazy consumer: “all this thinking and effort is tiring. Do you have a pill?”
    Physician: “pills exist to assist, not to replace you.”
    Lazy consumer: “I am going back to my video game and porn channel. They understand me…”

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  7. A timely joke a friend sent me today:

    Sex and Grammar

    On his 70th birthday, a man was given a gift certificate from his wife.
    The certificate was for consultation with a medicine man who
    was rumored to have a simple cure for erectile dysfunction.

    The old medicine man gave him a potion and, with a grip on his shoulder, warned, β€˜This is a powerful medicine. You take only a teaspoonful, and then say: β€˜1-2-3.’
    When you do, you will become more manly than you have ever been in your life,
    and you can perform for as long as you want.”

    The man thanked him and as he walked away, he turned and asked:
    β€œHow do I stop the medicine from working?”

    The medicine man replied, “Your partner must say β€˜1-2-3-4, but when she does,
    the medicine will not work again until the next full moon.”

    Eager to see if it worked, the man went home, took the medicine, and then invited
    his wife to join him in the bedroom.

    When she came in, he took off his clothes and said: “1-2-3!”
    Immediately, he was the manliest of men.

    His wife was excited and began throwing off her clothes, and asked: “What was the 1-2-3 for?”

    And that, boys and girls, is why we should never end our sentences with a preposition,
    because you could end up with a dangling participle.

    http://instantrimshot.com/index.php?sound=rimshot

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  8. Lol guys are not as aggressive when it comes to feedback. If their Viagra stops working they will just not even bother, if it was a women she would drive everyone at the pharmacy and drug company crazy with comments and complaints. Lol there’s a non pill version of female aphrodisiac it’s called Louis Vuitton. Lol

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  9. I didn’t discover until my early 20’s that incessant begging wasn’t considered a legitimate aspect of foreplay. I thought the idea was to wear down their resolve until they finally capitulated. Pretty romantic, right? Imagine my surprise when I found out the truth!

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  10. I listened to some of the side effects. Sounds a bit like the date rape drugs. Thanks, but no thanks.

    Being comfortable in your own skin, and being with someone who makes you feel wildly attractive is far more effective than any pill could ever be.

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